Can you just get over it?!

Last Saturday was graduation at my alma mater and so I went to support my Sorors. Afterwards, we always congregate and sing songs to commemorate their accomplishments. On this day, I happened to look over and see someone who I attended school with but had not seen in years. She and I didn't end our last conversation on a positive note and she was with people whom I don't associate with at all....on ANY level. I dismissed the thought and kept on moving. Later on, I noticed I had received a text message from someone. I read it; low & behold it was the girl I had gone to school with. First thought....this is so suspicious. Just what the hell does she have to say? Ok, just read it and if you choose, respond...or don't. Seems genuine but I still have my doubts; I mean you are the company you keep. Ok let's play it cool. Hello. You saw me? At graduation? Still not really sure but let's see. Alright, you seem to have grown up and moved on. How on earth did you get my number? Are you FREAKIN kidding me?! Wow, I'm speechless. Moving along...The conversation continued. Later on that night I had some drama and was dealing with it when my phone rang unknown. Of course I answer because I believe it's the person I've been calling. Wrong! At this point I'm pissed because you've called my phone not to mention I'm the deep throes of some major issues and you call with drama! Fast forward to Monday and I'm still dealing with my issues. I get a phone call and by now I am pissed to high heaven! So naturally I go back to the person who was initiator. As polite as possible I let her know I can't do it. I hear you saying your intentions were good however all of this back and forth, I can't and won't do it. Thank you goodbye. Moments later my phone rings and she wants to discuss the message. That's fine, let's discuss it. At the end of the conversation I was still a little hesitant about allowing her back into my life as a friend. Over the past couple of years I've trusted those not in my inner circle less and less and just kept to myself. Somehow because of one person my name is always involved in some drama. When do you grow up? When do you say enough is enough? We don't talk in at all yet and still you still find ways and come up with gimmicks to contact me! It's over and done with. As I started writing this entry my question was when do people grow up and move on. I just received some words of encouragement that states, 'Your expectation of people should never be too high. People do what they want, not what you would like. Little expectations = less disappointments." Well hot damn, I have my answer! That's my truth...